Friday, 25 October 2013

Coaching Days..

        I live in a sarai still. I see guys preparing for something or other on roads, buses, mess etc. Looking back i realize how difficult it was yet easy. All the pressure you feel inside, you see other people getting selections which you need, friends in private sector going places with their job like restaurants,tours even foreign trips, people in your facebook profile getting married even having kids and even your juniors doing more stuff than you and your life is stagnant. On the top of all this you are not even studying as much as you want to. You struggle to understand the concepts,wake up in the morning, trying to sleep at time, try to keep you attention and sleep in check in class,parents irritating you , eating the worst food of your life, may be even getting sick at times and feeling home sick too. It just seems never ending path and still when any exam is there you feel you are grossly under prepared  Every exam gives you a hope and every interview more hope. For some the wait might be over soon for some it's more difficult. Some may never get lucky.

      But this is the time when life is still in your hands.Time when you can launch yourself anywhere you want. You can place your self at any orbit. Your identity will depend on the hard work you do now. Once your aim is achieved whether it's a PSU or IES or M. Tech this achievement will stay with you unlike your college.You might not have been a bright student for your life (like me) and people would have told you you have potential or not (again like me), it's your chance to prove them right or wrong. It's your chance to prove yourself to the world. A world or nosy relatives, back biting neighbours or even showy friends. In fact it is probably your last chance to go to places with help of books and knowledge. You can offset a bad academic record and shut anybody's mouth forever.It's a great opportunity if you know how to use one.
   
   I was always told IES is tough, I hadn't been a bright student throughout my life, graduated from a private college with less than 65% marks. With such a bad track record, i never thought of making in to ES written leave alone interview.There were always NIT. IIT people, toppers, who knew every concept beforehand sir taught us but i don't know.It's not like a studied for every damn day or did everything told to me by made easy teachers. I slipped often, was confused often and was so sure i am a failure that i left mechanical engineering completely and changed field. You can sense how much frustrated i was.I was even rejected for DCE mtech.When i cam do it i feel everybody can.
    
You are a person who took a risk instead of a cushiony private job.You must have dreamt something when you entered this phase unless you were pushed by someone. So, make the best of it. Always keep your goal in mind. You may digress for a while, get distracted but do not for God's sake forget why you are tolerating all this in first place.For a future. A future that will make all this struggle a worth it. Otherwise all this suffering will be meaningless, useless. Just a step more everyday will bring you closer to your goal. So my friends study with a vengeance and realize youe own destiny... 

48 comments:

  1. Very motivating,
    Words r like mirror of what my condition is.
    keep writing.......

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    1. Thanks vishal.. your comment is very motivating for me!!1
      I'll try my best..

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    2. The most painfiul thing is ----- forgetting what u had already read. It is lik they r entering frm 1 door and getting out frm other.
      Can u plz suggest smthng fr that GHAJINI style...memory problem..
      :)

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    3. Well, it happens to all of us!! I was so frustrated with it that i was completely hopeless for IES exam. I even thought of not giving it.I just gave to because i thought mom would kill me after year of preparation and money wasting...
      . So,all you can do is pray that it all comes back in the exam. under pressure you
      know..But don't lose hope because of it..Keep preparing..!!

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    4. if i clear ies i owe it to you mate ....

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    5. Only one word comes into my mind "Inshaallah"....
      If god is willing...
      Best of luck.

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  2. motivational .............ma'am i have been reading ur blog and m very happy to know that u cracked IES... ma'am i m preparing for IES mech ...plz tell me how to prepare for conventional papers ......

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    1. Thanks for writing amit.. For conventional solve the solved questions of all the standard books (indian author only) and then previous year questions of IES. Choose the subjects wisely as it is not possible to cover everything nor time in exam to do all.. Look for weightages for subjects and your comfort level...Best of luck.There is time start now.

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    3. thanks for reply ma'am...........one more request
      i m following these books for solved problems .....could u suggest me some more which u followed
      thermo p k nag
      i c engine sharma and mathur
      Fluid mechanics subramanya
      HMT r k rajput
      production swadesh sir made easy book
      ieor kanti swaroop
      TOM r s khurmi
      machine design r s khurmi, v b bhandari
      vibration v p singh
      som sadhu singh
      fluid machinery r k bansal
      steam and gas turbine r yadav
      r ac r s khurmi.


      this is my book list for numericals........

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    4. Well well well... i guess it's more than enough..For you, you need to look at previous year papers before you start reading all these..Go for smart work.Beside time, one's memory and capacity too is limited..Take care of that.

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  3. truly motivating mam..its exactly the same phase i am going through..and ur words like oasis in desert

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  4. Thanks a tonnes dude... really needed something like this... FRUSTRATED to the core..!! your article helped a bit... :) :)

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    1. Thanks.Just keep going.. Dont lose hope..best of luck..

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  5. ur articles are very rfereshing ,i was frusturated a lot , a big blunder happened wid me ,i prepared with all the enry for this ies thing from last year and when i was feeling the form ,i came to knoe , i m not able to fill the form as my dob is in 1993 which doesnt permits me ,thanks for this articles ,they help us and keep ur motivated

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    1. Thanks shubam. And you need not to worry as in govt jobs earlier you join far you go. So you have a very clear advantage of your age. Get prepared for your time.
      Best of luck

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  6. Wow..Its like somebody described my exact situation!!
    Felt good after reading it..thanks for these motivational words..

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  7. whatsthe cost of livig in sarai??

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  8. Excellent blog and excellent blog post.
    Sincerely
    - IIT Bombay Alumnus (Gold Medalist)

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  9. Mam, I get motivated by reading ur blogs , u r a gud motivator I ever seen in my life.
    Thanku very much mam.

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  10. Mam, I get motivated by reading ur blogs , u r a gud motivator I ever seen in my life.
    Thanku very much mam.

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  11. Study with vengeance!!!. Wow. Thanks a lot.

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  12. Study with vengeance!!!. Wow. Thanks a lot.

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  13. Thanks for sharing that,
    After reading every single line, I smiled and laughed at myself.
    Because it seems that I wrote these lines and read it.

    Thanks for sharing this,



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  14. Thanks for motivating me madam.I request you to keep writing to motivate us

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  15. I was also think more...
    what will happen after b.tech??

    but after your blog ....I am some motivate..
    thanka sir

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  16. heya...superbly u wrote...very inspiring and much relatable
    did u cleared ies btw?

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  17. heya...superbly u wrote...very inspiring and much relatable
    did u cleared ies btw?

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  19. hi.....can i prepare for IES along with doing m.tech in IIT kanpur....since my goal is to become IES...should i drop and prepare..i m 2014 passout from NIT

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  22. This blog is very inspiring. I want to congratulate the writer and thank him/her for this. I have left two pvt. Sector jobs and preparing for IES. I have done m.tech from NIT jsr.

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  25. thank you for all the help! MUCH APPRECIATED :)

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